Saturday, June 28, 2008

PALcapsule, Only a Few Dosages Required

The past weeks were very stressful. Now instead of talking about weariness and annoyance, I’ll talk about friends…

For three weeks now, surely all of us have their pals and buddy system right. Now let me ask you this, how well do you know you’re buddies? Are they really your friends and those you think you feel close to; are they you’re friends as well? Normally, the straight forward answer is YES. Well, that might not be the truth fairly half true only.


Let me tell the reason, the people you usually bond with is the friend you enjoy to be with. When it comes to a grouping, usually, we’d choose our pals. We’d really get annoyed if we don’t like our group mates, got that right? But do we ever consider doing our best when we don’t like our group mates? NO, that’s the answer. We wouldn’t consider sharing sometimes we even dislike helping for what we think is that the others would take care of the job. Why am I saying this? It’s because this is what I always notice when I usually get to a grouping ever since grade school and I couldn’t believe up to high school.


This is much related to friendship. I never had too much friends. Even if I’ve got lot, they come up leaving me after a year for they move to another school or place. Then I have no communication with them, and the next time I see them, they don’t know me anymore. Isn’t it pretty pitiful on my part? But don’t feel sorry for me (for those who felt sorry only cause I know not all are taking this seriously) Nah, I’m used to that! A life with only three or five friends is enough for me. At least, I have friends.


What is a friend? For me, a friend is somebody who will be with you through thick and thin and who understands and supports you all the way. On the other hand a what we call “friend, friend “ is somebody who’d call you when they need you, who after that would just leave you there or even if you’re just beside him/her doesn’t even take you for consideration or even notice you. I’m just saying all of this for I’ve seen many people pretty like displays these behaviors ever since I entered grade school. Do we need to consider them as nothing at all? Correct me if I’m wrong but I’m really finding this school year, boring and full of competitions up ahead.


This topic I just opened up is too boring huh? Well if you really understood what I said, I’ll end it form here. As I said, Real Friends are what we need, not those who just thinks of you just like that. Without a doubt, I know everybody has them. That’s why they find it hard to be with others whom they find it annoying with. Let me answer my own question, based on what I’ve posted, I’m useless and annoying to be with. Somebody who’d be with me couldn’t even look me straight on the face for they think of one thing, she’s like to old to talk to plus she’s boring, she couldn’t talk about something we like so never mind her. She’s fine there. Let her find her own pals. Well I’m not the oldest here.

Quiet people, probably like me are really boring. Sometimes people really don’t know what we could do or even what we could show. Well, I’m out of here. Till next time and before that, let’s think of this, what’s the use of people around you if you wouldn’t even entertain them. It’s ok for me for I’m used to this life, but how about to others? It takes communication and a time to listen to people to be friends, not popularity. We don’t always have to be IN to be with the gang to get a high reputation to get noticed; all we need to be ourselves and show them our willingness to be with them and share, not take keep it all for yourself. At least they may appreciate that give you a little respect.

1 comment:

dhAmp_10 said...

Naman...

Friends tayo diba Mai??

Forever!

Wabyu friend!!!

Palagi mo yang tatandaan!!

Walang iwanan, promise!

T.T

 

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